Marriage is humbling. As victorious and bulletproof as you can feel as a couple at times, there are always unforeseen market corrections ahead. And the only way I know to crawl out of a marital crisis is by being as vulnerable and as honest as possible. …try as hard as you can to feel grateful for where you two have just landed. This is exactly where you need to be.
-Heather Havrilesky, Ask Polly on marriage